I am not my hair..

We all look for acceptence and approval....no matter how acomplished we are....from parents, friends, collegues, strange people on road. I do... and its not wrong!! Because that acceptence and approval gives us security...... But what if we are constantly modifiying ourselves against our likes to get to that approval and acceptence.

And if we dont change for the approval then what??  Do we disappear?? Do we become less loveable?? Less talented?? Less approved of?? Unpleasent to be around??

All of us think about this concously or unconcously... and all of them are affected by this.... I am not saying that this should change...or this is good or bad.....

I am just saying may be I should stop caring about the approval and the acceptance....stop waiting for it.....Its not worth....



Like India.Arie said in the lyrics of this beautiful song.
"I am not my hair ....I am not this skin ......I am a soul that lives within"